Veil or No Veil? Even as a Bridal Designer, I Struggled

When I was planning my wedding, one of the hardest decisions I faced wasn’t about the dress or the shoes—it was about the veil. For something so small, it carried an unexpected weight in my heart. To me, the veil is the most romantic accessory a bride can wear. It’s what makes you a bride.

But I struggled with the decision. I wondered if a veil was right for me. And here’s the thing—I’m a bridal accessory designer. I know the trends, the traditions, the rules. I’ve helped thousands of brides choose their finishing touches. But when it came to my own wedding? I hesitated.

Let’s be honest—I’m not in my 20s or even 30s anymore. Was it still me? Could I pull it off? The truth is, I almost didn’t wear one. But in the end, I decided to own it and embrace it, and I’m so glad I did. There’s something about wearing a veil that transforms the moment you put it on.

Suddenly, the months of planning and the hundreds of decisions all made sense. It wasn’t just about how I looked; it was about how I felt. The veil created a sense of ceremony, something that felt uniquely mine. I’ll never forget walking down the aisle with that soft tulle floating around me—it made me feel beautiful, timeless, and every bit a bride.

I know that choosing to wear one is a personal and emotional decision. For some brides, it’s an instant yes moment. For others, like me, it takes time and reflection.

So if you’re on the fence about wearing a veil, my advice is simple: try it on. Let yourself feel the moment, and trust your instincts. You might just find, like I did, that it’s the most romantic decision you’ll make.